Charles Spencer Reveals How He Broke News of Diana Memoir to William and Harry
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In an exclusive sit-down at Althorp, Charles Spencer revealed that he kept his deeply personal new memoir, Swan Song: Diana, My Sister, entirely secret from his family until late in the writing process. When he finally broke the news, the 9th Earl Spencer informed both nephews—Prince William (44) and Prince Harry (42)—as well as his older sisters, Lady Sarah McCorquodale (71) and Lady Jane Fellowes (69), at “exactly the same time”.
Managing Reactions Across the Family
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Speaking from his study on the Spencer family estate, the 62-year-old Earl explained why he chose to keep the circle tight—confiding initially only in his wife, Cat Spencer, and key publishing contacts:
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A Surprised Family:“I think they were very surprised. They hadn’t seen it coming… All four of them [William, Harry, Sarah, and Jane], I told them exactly the same time. And I can say that Harry is completely fine about it.”
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Harry’s Main Concern: Spencer noted that the Duke of Sussex primarily wanted reassurance that the book wouldn’t embarrass him:“I said, ‘There isn’t.’ I think it’s natural that people so in the public eye are concerned how they will come across in the book. But I could reassure both of them that they’re, of course, in the book, but really as examples of two little boys who had the most exceptional mother, I’m not in any way compromising their privacy at all.”
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His Sisters’ Hesitation: Spencer acknowledged that Lady Sarah and Lady Jane were initially hurt by being kept in the dark, explaining that writing the book couldn’t become a group project:“I think they were hurt that I hadn’t told them, to be honest. I said, ‘I was going to hurt you either way, because I was either going to tell you and still write it how I wanted it. It wasn’t going to be a committee effort.’ I wanted them to be able to put their hand up and say, ‘Well, we didn’t know he was doing it,’ in case there’s backlash or whatever.”
The Portrayal of King Charles III
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Addressing concerns William and Harry may have felt regarding their father, King Charles III, Spencer insisted that he intentionally held back from sensationalism:
“Yeah, that was a concern. I mean, I don’t want this to sound loaded, but there was an awful lot I could have put in and I didn’t. If I wanted to write a scandalous book about Prince Charles or King Charles as he is now, it would really be a jaw-dropper, but I’m not here to do that.”
The comments come amid intense controversy stirred by excerpts serialized in the British press, including Spencer’s disputed allegation that the then-Prince of Wales told him after Diana’s death: “Rest assured, we’ll forget her soon enough”—a claim that prompted Buckingham Palace to issue a rare statement warning that fraternal grief can “cloud reason, affect judgment and colour memory”.
A Brother’s Final Word
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Published ahead of the 30th anniversary of Diana’s death in August 2027, Swan Song represents the first time Spencer has written at length about their shared childhood, her public unraveling, and the emotional week of her funeral.
Spencer framed the project as a companion to his famous 1997 Westminster Abbey eulogy:
“The aim of this book is to tell the truth about Diana from her brother’s perspective, just as I attempted to do when speaking at her funeral… At heart, this is a brother’s simple tribute to an extraordinary sister… and she would, I reckon, have approved of every word.”